A mantra is a set of sentences, which when recited inspires.
I always believe that is important to convey by words as sometimes it is not possible to show your support by actions.
Sometime back, I had a surprise awaiting me.
I received an sms text from my sister.
It read –
You have done good to others, only good will happen to you.
Sarada J. (My sister)
My sister and myself share a childhood filled with fun and happiness. After our respective marriages also we shared a very good life, amidst all difficulties. I always believed that having an hubby with a transferable job, life was much harder for her in some ways. She has been sportive to take it all in her stride.
My childhood was really fun. I never gave anyone nicknames, when young. But, the only time I gave one was to my sister.
The name – Bujji.
I do not know where I picked it from or, did I copy someone else?
Must have been the later as many relatives used to visit our place.
You see, my father worked in Bangalore, and in 1970-80’s it was the place. Everyone of our relatives wanted to visit Bangalore and if possible Mysore.
I am almost certain I started calling her by her nickname, by the time I was 7 or 8 yr old.
Now, as I reach 60 yrs of age, the body showing tell tale signs of aging, and the mind, looking for a refresh, this sms text from her is more valuable than anything else as it connects me with my parents and childhood and what I lived for at crucial times in our family lives.
Earlier it was Cards now it is SMS! How things have changed.
BTW:
It was my sister who introduced our family to the concept of Cards with beautiful quotes (maatulu). I must say, it made us all bond together better.
Maate Mantrumu.
THANK YOU